Lately, I’ve been picking up extra work around the house. My husband’s job has some tight deadlines and he’s been MIA. When he is around, I’d prefer to have some fun rather than have him de-thatching the lawn or vacuuming the house. I’m not complaining – I’ve done this myself many, many times in the past. I’ve gone MIA because of work more times than I can count. Most times we are fortunate and both of us aren’t crunching at the same time. Occasionally we are, and we just have to make the best of it. The best partnerships can handle the ebb and flow of energy and it all balances out over time.
Now. How does this apply to work? A lot of times there is resentment and frustration when a team member habitually expects others to pick up their slack. That’s the worst case scenario – and probably is very similar to what happens in a bad relationship.
I’ve been continually impressed with my “new” (ok, not so new anymore) team. Everyone is self directed and very motivated. When someone is out for personal reasons, others just pick up the slack. It isn’t a big deal. Nobody complains, they just work on whatever is the highest priority at the time. It’s great!
I wish I could find the source for the original quote – “you can never be too kind of too fair.” It’s a unique work environment where you see this in action almost every day.
I found it to be a very worthwhile read and enjoyed it very much. For once I’ve found a management book that really doesn’t push one leadership style or behavior over others. What they found is that there is a set of competencies that are important. However, strangely enough, no one competency is more important than any of the others. Additionally a great leader doesn’t have to be good at all of them. A good leader just has to be exceptional at a few in order to be considered great. This determination wasn’t come about through “gut feeling” or their experiences, but through a very large study.